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PSA:

If you are responding to this post with some variation of “why don’t we just stop using the word ‘hate’” you are operating from a place of privilege as well as from a fundamental lack of understanding about how privilege works. You’re not making any particularly new, interesting, or even relevant points. You are simply wrong, and what’s worse is that by being wrong about this particular issue, you’re contributing to the standing culture of a privileged party dictating what an oppressed party is and is not allowed to do or say. In other words, you are essentially supporting oppression.

Cut that shit out.

In the instances when POC say shit like ‘Oh I can’t stand white folk’ or ‘Damn white people’, they aren’t saying ‘Oh I think they are inferior, I want to humiliate them, abuse them, enslave them and wipe out their people!’, they’re saying ‘Damn, after a couple hundred years of white people thinking I’m inferior, humiliating me, abusing me, enslaving me, and trying to wipe out my people, I don’t wanna deal with them.’ The context is completely different.

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Reblogging every time I see it.

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Thank you.

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THIS CONCEPT IS NOT THAT FUCKING HARD.

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Though no one would ever think of using the term honor violence (we reserve that descriptor for brown people who live somewhere else, motivated by religious something-or-other or tribal something-or-other), one-third of women murdered every year in the United States are killed by their intimate partners. In 2005 that amounted to 1,181 women, or three women every day. To put that in perspective, the UN estimates there are 5,000 honor killings every year in the entire world. 5,000 in a world of 6 billion versus nearly 1,200 in a single country of 300 million. In other words, a woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

How I Learned To Stop Worrying And Love Feminists. (via popmuslim)

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

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Let me reiterate that for you all …

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

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I think you’ve missed a crutial point though, let me point it out:

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

A woman in America runs a greater risk of being killed by her husband or boyfriend than a woman in Pakistan.

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I think that being repeated so many times is fantastic for Western fauxminists and “egalitarians” that think all issues here are “fixed” (or “reversed” so that men are oppressed) so now  we just need to go save the brown women in other countries.

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I try so hard not to generalize men, you know? I try SO hard. But then the other night I went out with my friends and the car was full and I looked around and realized that every single one of the women in that car had been raped or sexually assaulted and it’s like, how can you not hate them? It’s not fair. But it’s not fair that they do this to us and then act like it isn’t a problem.

My friend Marissa, talking at the beach yesterday (paraphrased). (via bigfatfeminist)

Yeah it’s fine to hate rapists and people who sexually assault but it is never okay to just hate all men.

It’s never okay to hate a group of people based on their sex, race, sexuality, etc.

Saying “they” and “them” generalizes all men and that is not okay.

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Mmm. Except it’s not the same thing at all.

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I try so hard not to generalize men, you know? I try SO hard. But then the other night I went out with my friends and the car was full and I looked around and realized that every single one of the women in that car had been raped or sexually assaulted and it’s like, how can you not hate them? It’s not fair. But it’s not fair that they do this to us and then act like it isn’t a problem.

My friend Marissa, talking at the beach yesterday (paraphrased).
stfuconservatives:

This is Melissa McEwan, a blogger for Shakesville. Someone took this photo of her and made a fake OKCupid profile that was riddled with fat hatred and racism. It got linked on Reddit, and as you can see from the notes, it’s made its way to Tumblr.
This is not a real profile, and this person did not write any of it. Here’s some of what she had to say:

I’m getting emails about it from people who recognize me, so part of the reason for this post is just to publicly say: Yes, I know about it. Another part is to acknowledge that my image is being used in a racist meme, which is upsetting. I’m pissed to have been put in a position where some people will misconstrue my objection to the meme as embarrassment (or some other negative reaction) to the suggestion I’d be sexually intimate with a black man, as opposed to being angry my image is being used to perpetuate oppressive stereotypes of black men as: 1. A Mandingo monolith; and 2. Consolation prizes for white women considered undesirable by white men. That is not how I think of black men, and I am unthrilled, to put it mildly, to see those narratives being promulgated in the year of our lord Jesus Jones two thousand and twelve, no less that my image is being used in the process. Finally, I’m writing about this to underscore, once again, the cost of being a fat woman who has the unmitigated temerity to put her picture on the internet. My picture has been used in all sorts of violent and pornographic imagery; it’s been used to mock me specifically, and to mock fat women generally; it’s been appropriated as “the face of morbid obesity”; and now it’s been used in a racist meme. I’m sure pictures of me have been used in ways of which I’m not even aware.

So, you know. Stop reblogging this.

For fuck&#8217;s sake.

stfuconservatives:

This is Melissa McEwan, a blogger for Shakesville. Someone took this photo of her and made a fake OKCupid profile that was riddled with fat hatred and racism. It got linked on Reddit, and as you can see from the notes, it’s made its way to Tumblr.

This is not a real profile, and this person did not write any of it. Here’s some of what she had to say:

I’m getting emails about it from people who recognize me, so part of the reason for this post is just to publicly say: Yes, I know about it.

Another part is to acknowledge that my image is being used in a racist meme, which is upsetting.

I’m pissed to have been put in a position where some people will misconstrue my objection to the meme as embarrassment (or some other negative reaction) to the suggestion I’d be sexually intimate with a black man, as opposed to being angry my image is being used to perpetuate oppressive stereotypes of black men as: 1. A Mandingo monolith; and 2. Consolation prizes for white women considered undesirable by white men.

That is not how I think of black men, and I am unthrilled, to put it mildly, to see those narratives being promulgated in the year of our lord Jesus Jones two thousand and twelve, no less that my image is being used in the process.

Finally, I’m writing about this to underscore, once again, the cost of being a fat woman who has the unmitigated temerity to put her picture on the internet. My picture has been used in all sorts of violent and pornographic imagery; it’s been used to mock me specifically, and to mock fat women generally; it’s been appropriated as “the face of morbid obesity”; and now it’s been used in a racist meme. I’m sure pictures of me have been used in ways of which I’m not even aware.

So, you know. Stop reblogging this.

For fuck’s sake.

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what is your opinion of the isthisfeminist tumblr? other than underplaying the importance of viewing things through a feminist lens, i feel like it's the same joke over and over. also it's written by a dude, which makes me wonder about the author's intentions

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It’s not nearly as witty as it thinks it is, and it’s not all that funny, either. Though there’s something to be said for the fact that ANY cultural criticism can sometimes fall into tired patterns, making that joke once is pretty much enough.

I’m automatically skeptical of any man who takes it upon himself to critique what women describe as feminism, as a general rule. 

What would you say to people who don't believe the phrase, "Everyone is Beautiful?" The ones who believe that just certain types of people are good looking while others aren't.

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There is no such thing as an objectively hot person. It’s not like everyone agrees that Brad Pitt is the be-all and end-all, or that no one on Earth is more stunning than Scarlett Johanssen.

Really, though? These people are missing out on one fuck of a lot of beauty in the world, which is their problem entirely. Too bad for them.

Oh, but this is not a matter of “glorifying” obesity. Glorifying obesity would take multiple TV shows depicting fat folks riding unicorns and devouring warm pies whilst counting the bags of money they’ve gained from being fat. Indeed, if simply putting fat people on television was enough to “glorify” obesity, then The Biggest Loser should have done the trick years ago. It hasn’t, because The Biggest Loser is a show built on the humiliation and punishment (self-inflicted or otherwise) of fat people. When we say that putting fat people on television will “glorify” their bodies, what we really mean is that we are uncomfortable giving fat people any attention that is not overtly negative. Because fat people need to be told: don’t be fat. Being fat means you are not entitled to a normal life. Being fat means you are not entitled to love. Being fat means you are not entitled to humanity, much less dignity.

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Yeaaaup.

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