Anonymous asked: do you know of any good websites to purchase vibrators/toys from? i've heard horror stories about people getting junk mail/catalogs sent to their house after ordering from certain sites so i'm a little hesitant to order anything online.
That awkward moment
nessfraserloves: stfurapeculture: When Jezebel complains about Chris Brown being at the Grammys and then two days later publishes an article by Hugo Schwyzer, charmingly entitled, “Why Do Men Love ‘Barely Legal’ Porn?” Jezebel needs to go away. I will admit that it is a guilty pleasure but this shit is just getting ridiculous. Sweet Christ. Really? Are you fucking kidding me?
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thirdw0rld: Men literally can do no wrong in this society. Everything a man does is justified because he’s a man. Remember boys will be boys, right? That’s why it’s a controversy for M.I.A. to lift her middle finger up during halftime, but it’s acceptable for someone who beat his girlfriend up to perform at the Grammys.
Anonymous asked: What are your thoughts on how society views body hair?
I watch movies and I don’t care who is the protagonist, I feel what that guy is...– Meryl Streep “men don’t live through the female characters” - the realities of living in a andro-centric society… (via newwavefeminism) I love Meryl. I’m not totally on board with her starring in a movie portraying Margaret Thatcher as a BAMF feminist icon, but I love Meryl. (via...
This is precisely why I think we should take weight loss out of the health...– The “…then you lose weight” Debacle. Read the whole blog. It’s short, sweet, and awesome.
Anonymous asked: My sexual identification ("straight") reinforces gender binary, and there are certain body types I am not physically attracted to, sometimes due in some part to weight/fat. How much of this is socially programmed into me? If it's a bad thing, how can I deconstruct it? I know "not being physically attracted to X" isn't the same as "not accepting X" but is any...
honeychurch-emerson asked: Hi Kaye! Can I ask some advice? I work in a cafe selling fresh smoothies, sandwiches, cakes etc to take out. We have a lot of regular customers who work nearby and come in for their lunch. It's very relaxed and chatty. Women often tell me they can't have something they want because 'they're too fat' or that they feel guilty for eating a perfectly standard lunch because...
queervashti asked: To the anon asking about name appropriation, I can tell you that as a Jewish woman, I would not be offended. Hebrew names are everywhere in our society because Christianity began as Judaism. It's definitely not appropriation to choose a name that you can relate to that just happens to come from the Hebrew language. I can't speak for all languages... but as far as I know, unless you...
Anonymous asked: Do you believe everyone is beautiful?
Anonymous asked: what should the answer be if someone asks, "Am i fat?" I don't want to hurt feelings but at the same time this is complicated.
If you think that [only one kind of person] is beautiful, then you must not see...– Margaret Cho, from her stand-up special Beautiful