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LOL THAT’S IT, LADIESBUYINGCOMICS UNFOLLOWED

fivecentsplease:

ladiesbuyingcomics:

fivecentsplease:

SRSLY

SRSLY 

Uh? Am I not allowed to apologize? I realize, in hindsight, that I did sound judgmental. D:

lmfao gurl it is such a non-apology i can’t even 

As much as women are not at fault for looking like purely sexual beings to men, we have to be aware that there is stuff women purposefully do in order to make themselves desirable to men in a negative way. Stuff that goes beyond looking and dressing to be conventionally attractive, and that stuff can change how men treat other women.

“…we have to be aware that there is stuff women purposefully do in order to make themselves desirable to men in a negative way.” 

A+ VICTIM BLAMING. 

It doesn’t matter what I do with my own body, men can fuck right off. That sentence is blaming women for how men treat them. “If only you did xyz, men wouldn’t do abc.” 

So do I disagree with purposefully associating your boobs with your comics? Yes. Yes, I do. I’m sorry, but this photo doesn’t do women in comics many favors.

It’s ONE BOOB CREEPING IT’S WAY INTO THE FRAME. Everything is covered! What are you even going on about?

But seriously, it isn’t bad to question our behavior as women in comics. So thus, I questioned (in a very judgmental manner) whether or not this was the right thing to post on this blog. Because we, as women, cannot just run rampant through the world with no negative consequences, and not *everything* is a man’s fault.

MORE. VICTIM. BLAMING. 

YES. IT IS THE MAN’S FAULT. 

WHAT I DO OR DON’T DO WITH MY BODY IS MY BUSINESS. WHAT THIS GIRL IS WEARING/HOW SHE’S POSING WHILE SHE HOLD’S A COMIC IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. 

NOBODY would have noticed OP’s fucking breasts if you hadn’t said anything. 

There’s no right or wrong way to behave as a woman. Unless you’re spewing your internalized misogyny all over the place. 

And the tacked on “hope she read that cover to cover” bullshit, do you add that on to everyone’s pictures? Or just the ones that you think are too “provocative?”

And you’ve had other bullshit on this blog about “Sexy” cosplayers doing it for attention, as if cosplayers like this Starfire aren’t “real” comic fans, she’s just doing it for attention. 

For a blog that’s supposed to be helping the perception of women in comics fandom, you’re doing a piss poor job. 

Ladies, gentlemen, and non-binary identified people: check out my friend Merg, being a straight-up badass.

(via ceepers)

Notes

  1. stctechnologies reblogged this from ladiesbuyingcomics
  2. allaboutmanga reblogged this from oh-fruitcakes and added:
    Answering on my personal tumblr because people are sick of this on their dash. I am trying to self-police. Perhaps I...
  3. attracadactyl reblogged this from fivecentsplease and added:
    Fucking love you.
  4. lordflintjojo reblogged this from naughtynerdy and added:
    Boobs are fine in comics but they are not allowed to buy them, oh no! No matter what top I wear my boobs are going to...
  5. jonathandrew-gr-off reblogged this from bigfatfeminist
  6. oh-fruitcakes reblogged this from ladiesbuyingcomics and added:
    This is the annoying thing about Tumblr - discussions get super long and then I feel bad for taking up everyone’s dash....
  7. ladiesbuyingcomics reblogged this from oh-fruitcakes and added:
    Yes, it does seem like we’re seeing this picture differently. I can’t help it. I do see this as pushing out her boobs to...
  8. captainsulus reblogged this from oldvengerturtle
  9. bumblesbounce said: They probably deserve to have the face of Morrison glaring at them for the rest of time
  10. rraaaarrl reblogged this from oh-fruitcakes and added:
    anothergirllikescomics, I just want you to know I kind of love you right now ♥
  11. fourofthem reblogged this from fivecentsplease
  12. naughtynerdy reblogged this from ladiesbuyingcomics and added:
    “I wanted to show the non-sexy side of comics with this blog because I feel like that’s the honest and normal side of...
  13. glompcat reblogged this from fyeahlilbit2point0 and added:
    Oh. I thought the test was oral. Goodness knows the proprietors of almost every comic book shop I’ve ever set foot into...
  14. wingedbeastieanji reblogged this from commanderbishoujo
  15. commanderbishoujo reblogged this from oldvengerturtle and added:
    jesus christ I hate...nerd girl police. HATE IT. I guess I don’t count as a ~real...
  16. ragnell reblogged this from fyeahlilbit2point0 and added:
    I got yer exam right here!… Why do I always miss?
  17. oldvengerturtle reblogged this from fyeahlilbit2point0 and added:
    like we don’t get it enough from all the asshole dudes who think it’s their god-given right to question any girl who...
  18. fyeahlilbit2point0 reblogged this from fivecentsplease and added:
    I didn’t know women needed to pass some sort of written exam before they were deemed worthy to be part of comic fandom.
  19. fivecentsplease reblogged this from allaboutmanga and added:
    Your blog is called ladiesbuyingcomics. not ladieswhoideemworthyofbeingcalledanerdbuyingcomics or...
  20. elysethegorgon reblogged this from bigfatfeminist
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  22. xxxraquelita reblogged this from eddardstarked
  23. eddardstarked reblogged this from fivecentsplease and added:
    i don’t even like comics, but damn that’s an a+ response, meggie. OP has so much internalized misogyny, ugh.
  24. fullonmonet reblogged this from fivecentsplease and added:
    Thank you.
  25. queen0fcups reblogged this from bigfatfeminist
  26. bigfatfeminist reblogged this from ceepers and added:
    Ladies, gentlemen, and non-binary identified people: check out my friend Merg, being a straight-up badass.
  27. ceepers reblogged this from fivecentsplease
  28. oispaceman reblogged this from fivecentsplease
  29. soycrates reblogged this from ladiesbuyingcomics and added:
    Well, yeah. It - wow. That was really judgemental. It’s disappointing when people think you can’t be attractive, or have...
  30. thestarspangledman said: LAUGHING TO KEEP FROM CRYING BC WE JUST CAN’T FUCKING WIN.
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