Emily Nagoski. no idea who she is, but i thank her. there is no excuse for rape and anyone who excuses it is insulting both the victim and the rapist. (via rapeisnotajoke)
There are two arguments I’ve noticed
- “Women should prepare themselves better if they don’t want to get raped”
- ALL MEN AREN’T RAPISTS/It’s not fair that women accuse me of being a rapist/I get called creepy all the time
So basically we have to prepare ourselves all the time, but if we ever give a man the sense that we view them as a misogynistic/violent threat - that’s unfair.