If you are responding to this post with some variation of “why don’t we just stop using the word ‘hate’” you are operating from a place of privilege as well as from a fundamental lack of understanding about how privilege works. You’re not making any particularly new, interesting, or even relevant points. You are simply wrong, and what’s worse is that by being wrong about this particular issue, you’re contributing to the standing culture of a privileged party dictating what an oppressed party is and is not allowed to do or say. In other words, you are essentially supporting oppression.
Cut that shit out.