My roommate is friends with a cismale. I am a fat, white, cisfemale and he constantly makes remarks that make me uncomfortable. Recently this guy was discussing porn blogs run by cisfemales, and he said: "One is run by a hot chick, the other blog is run by a fat, black chick." This phrase offended me & made me feel super uncomfortable. I called him out on it but he said it was him voicing his "preferences" & how he's "not into fat, black women." What can I say to things like this in the future?
I hate people like this. Here are some snappy comebacks!
“That’s cool, I totally understand. I’m not into douchebags.”
“Oh, right, I forgot, you’re only into what the media tells you to be into.”
“Ah yes, and what they’re doing only has value if they’re hot. Duh.”
“And only hot people can express their sexuality! I forgot about that!”
Or my personal favorite, “Go fuck yourself, because I fear that no one else’s standards will ever be low enough.”