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Today I was told I shouldn’t get a sweater dress because “horizontal stripes don’t really work on all body types,” according to the salesgirl at H&M (which, by the by, doesn’t really carry my size).
Sigh.
You know, for years I just accepted that rule. Big girls can’t wear horizontal stripes; everyone knows that. And then, one day, I realized:
That’s a dumb fucking rule.
ETA: For the record, Kaye, you are freakin’ awesome, and gorgeous, and I also you’ve made me really want a sweater dress. I’m torn between hoping you bought that one, and hoping you didn’t give the salesgirl the satisfaction of the commission. (Do salespeople at H&M even work on commission? IDK, but the point still stands.)
DAMN GURL.
I did not by that stupid dress. It was itchy as all hell anyway. I went to Torrid and got skinny jeans instead. #boom
“I’m tired of excuses. I’m tired of being told that fashionable clothes “don’t sell” in plus-sizes. Of course they don’t, when they’re shoved on the back side of the shop floor like you’re ashamed of them, never marketed properly and of course, are never there. Perhaps instead of blaming the market, perhaps it’s time to look at how you’re approaching it. Perhaps it’s time to make a splash and say “Check out our hot new clothes for plus-sizes! Shop your heart out, you deserve nice things too!” and watch just how things change with what sells and what doesn’t. How about looking at how you market to plus-sized women, and instead of selling them “flattering”, sell them fun, sell them fashion, sell them empowerment.”
These are pretty striking.
While we talk a lot about harmful media beauty ideals like extreme thinness, appearance-focused “fitness,” sex appeal, and photoshopping phoniness, one of the most oppressive ideals excludes anyone who isn’t … white. We call it the whitewashing of beauty.
In a country where a full one-third of the population is black, Native American, Asian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic or Latina, the serious underrepresentation of women of color in media is really disturbing. Further, when you only account for the women of color shown in positive roles or depictions – especially those depicted as beautiful or desirable – the number is almost negligible.
The mainstream beauty ideal is almost exclusively white, making it all the more unattainable for women of color. Though beautiful women of color like Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Queen Latifah, Rihanna, Jennifer Hudson, Halle Berry and others have achieved renown in U.S. culture, media representations of these women have become increasingly “anglicized” or “whitewashed” over time, with lighter-colored, straighter hair, lighter makeup, colored contacts and often shrinking figures.
Even when the women are being recognized for something other than their beauty, like, say, an Oscar nomination for incredibly talented actress Gabourey Sidibe of “Precious,” magazines like Elle still feel the need to whitewash her in order to feature her image on the cover.
While representation of women of color in media has increased slightly over the past decade, finding positive depictions of women with dark skin tones or natural hair is still nearly impossible in mainstream media.Further, when we do see women of color represented as beauty icons in media, they almost always already fit white ideals –meaning they already have light skin tones, light-colored, straight hair, ideally “white” facial features, thin figures, etc.
Essentially, WOC are viewing a distorted reality and holding themselves to the unattainable standard set by the non-reality of popular media – and most often, those standards are based on oppressive, power-laden ideals of whiteness.
Recognizing the ridiculous lack of diversity in representation of media, and particularly when it comes to portrayals of beauty, is absolutely crucial for people of all races.
Recognizing is the first step toward rejecting those messages and the negative feelings they inspire about our bodies. After we reject them, we can continuously redefine beauty for ourselves – on our own terms – with the help of the beautiful people in our lives who recognize other forms of beauty as well.
By Lindsay Kite, 2011. “Beauty Whitewashed: How White Ideals Exclude Women of Color.” Published at www.beautyredefined.net/beauty-whitewashed-how-white-ideals-exclude-women-of-color.
I can’t believe we still have to explain this…but here ya go…
I think a lot of people hear “We’re mad that you find our cultures beautiful” when what we’re really saying is, “We’re mad that your idea of showing appreciation for our cultures is buying mass produced shit from Urban Outfitters.” Nobody’s saying you can’t enjoy indigenous fashions and incorporate them into your wardrobe, but don’t think you’re doing us any favors unless you’re supporting a native artisan.If you MUST have Native American style? Get it for real.
Beyond Buckskin has a boutique featuring all native designers. Haute couture to affordable and one-of-a-kind street wear items, as well as jewellery and accessories galore.
Additional authentic on-line stores can be found here. Stop supporting the exploitation of our cultures which is running rampant right now via all of those knock-off items being massed produced overseas by people who have absolutely no connection (or clue) to Native American cultures.
This. And I really want to know why it is so hard for these people to consider buyig from native artisans to begin with.
Oh, shit, this dress:
http://beyondbuckskinboutique.bigcartel.com/product/gunmetal-dress
Brittany from PocketsandBows
BABE
OH MAN I NEED MORE NEON CLOTHING
(via fuckyeahfatpositive)
MY OUTFIT TODAY WAS KINDA WONDERFUL. EH? EH?
Top: Cami pajama set from Superhero Stuff, XL.
Jeans: Macy’s.
Boots: DSW.
Sweater: Hand-me-down from my mother.
Arm warmers: Sock Dreams.