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Porn is about male fantasy. The fantasy is that women like everything you do to them, as man.

So how does this translate into real life? Women spend a lot of time and energy trying to please men. We learn early on that we are being looked at – that we are to be looked at. That we are performers. It took years before I actually started enjoying sex. YEARS. I think what I enjoyed most about sex, when I was younger, was the feeling of being desired. The actual sex part was super boring for the first while.

We learn, as girls and women, that the performance is more important than the actual feeling.

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Facials, feminism, & performance: On f**king men in a patriarchy

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OH MY GOD THIS

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communismkillsitonthedancefloor:

Diet ideas: Eat whatever you want, and if anyone tries to lecture you about your weight, eat them too.

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“I’m going to make a store called “Build-a-Bra” where girls can go and make bras that are for them if they have different shaped boobs. And really big boobs. And really small boobs. And bras for boys that they can stuff if they want them. And really any kind of boobs. And you’ll choose the size of each cup and then you can choose the color and pattern and shape. And it’ll be really cheap. But lace and diamonds will cost a little extra”

my 12 year old “niece” Lila on her business idea.

I love that little girl.

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Best idea.

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LOST: SELF-RESPECT (REBLOG FOR SIGNAL BOOST)

gublerwood:

I don’t know, you guys. I’m really at a loss here. I can’t find my self-respect. It seems I have misplaced it. Here’s a photo of me with my self-respect fully intact:

See? Look at how happy I look? I’m fully clothed and you can just see the self-respect radiating off of me.

But somewhere in between that picture being taken and this picture being taken….

My self-respect seems to have vanished… And I’m getting really worried because I’m starting to think I’ve become a little bit of a slut? I looked up the symptoms of being a slut and I have them all:

sudden awareness of control over one’s body

sudden awareness of control over one’s sexuality

sudden awareness of control over one’s sex life

sudden awareness of rights over one’s mind and body

consensually taking part in sexual activities with one or more partners

And I won’t even go on with the list because there are just too many symptoms that prove that I’ve become a slut :( I really don’t know what happened. Ever since I lost my self-respect, my life has just become an abyss and I’ve just become this really terrible person with a really terrible life and I just want to find my self-respect so I can once again lead a fulfilling life. I want to be pure once more. I want to feel whole.

Please, if you have any information of any sort on where my self-respect might have gone, feel free to call me at 1-800-INTERNALISED-MISOGYNY

Or try me on my cell

1-800-I-LOVE-SLUT-SHAMING

Thank you for your time.

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