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If [Teach For America] really wants to do a favor for poor inner city kids, they ought to send the two year volunteers to teach in the best white schools in New York City to free up veteran teachers to teach the children of the poor, because they’re the ones who need teachers who know what they’re doing and aren’t just practicing on them.

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songsforthesiren:

stophatingyourbody:

You can be fat and healthy, actually.
Here
are 
a
ton
of
links
and
studies
and 
people
to
prove
it.
But the most important part is: Not your body? Not your business. Shame doesn’t help anyone. Stigma doesn’t help anyone. Vague future health threats don’t help anyone.
But if the only places that you hear that fat is always unhealthy are from mass media, which helps the diet industry make $40 BILLION (or more) profit per year, or from the medical community which is more interested in making money off prescribing pills and bariatric surgery, you might want to consider that you’ve been fooled. Also keep in mind that the government and medical community immediately throws out/stops funding any studies that prove that fat is not unhealthy.
This is not the place to be asking such questions. This blog is not about health. This blog is about self esteem. This blog promotes POSITIVE self-esteem regardless of weight, health, or any other physical factors. We’re not here to argue about it.
~Amber

The best part about that question was that the person who answered said: You may feel fine, and your doctor may tell you you’re fine, and medical tests may say you’re fine BUT YOU’RE NOT. 
I loled. 

songsforthesiren:

stophatingyourbody:

You can be fat and healthy, actually.

But the most important part is: Not your body? Not your business. Shame doesn’t help anyone. Stigma doesn’t help anyone. Vague future health threats don’t help anyone.

But if the only places that you hear that fat is always unhealthy are from mass media, which helps the diet industry make $40 BILLION (or more) profit per year, or from the medical community which is more interested in making money off prescribing pills and bariatric surgery, you might want to consider that you’ve been fooled. Also keep in mind that the government and medical community immediately throws out/stops funding any studies that prove that fat is not unhealthy.

This is not the place to be asking such questions. This blog is not about health. This blog is about self esteem. This blog promotes POSITIVE self-esteem regardless of weight, health, or any other physical factors. We’re not here to argue about it.

~Amber

The best part about that question was that the person who answered said: You may feel fine, and your doctor may tell you you’re fine, and medical tests may say you’re fine BUT YOU’RE NOT. 

I loled. 

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winchesterlicious:

unseilie:

fullofbeansandspunk:

everythingbutharleyquinn:

asinheavenasinhell:

thnafu:

• Use the hand you write with.

• Make a fist with your thumb outside, not tucked inside. If it’s tucked inside your fist, when you punch someone, you might break your thumb. The thumb goes across your fingers, not on the side.

• Don’t be like in the movies—don’t aim for the face. Face punches don’t usually stop people, and you can miss when they duck their head or break your hand on their jaw. If you want to get away quickly, or end a fight, aim for the chest, or the ribs. If you really want to do some damage, e.g., you’re being attacked, aim for the throat, which will make it hard for your attacker to breathe for a hot minute.

• When you punch, you want to aim and hit with your first two knuckles. Not the flats of your fingers, and not your ring or pinky knuckles, which can break more easily. You can use your weight, if you’re on your feet, to add wallop, and spring into a punch with your feet and torso.

Useful information, esp. if you haven’t taken self defense.

I reblogged this once before to add this and I’ll do it again…

keep your wrist straight.

You can also risk breaking your wrist if you allow it to bend.  I actually can’t believe this isn’t in there.

Other good pointers:

  • if your attacker is male, go for his junk - especially if he’s wearing loose pants. There’s no sportsmanship when it comes to assault so fuck them balls UP
  • punching pretty much ANYWHERE in the face is going to actually hurt you a LOT (just think - you’re punching your bones into their bones and ow). If you’re going for the face, my suggestion is to strick upwards with your palm.

see that meaty portion highlighted in red? There’s a lot of muscle and fat right there which makes it excellent for striking. Hold your hand as shown and aim for the nose or chin (though I’ve been told in extreme circumstances, doing this to the nose can be fatal but I’ve never really heard if this is true or not) and just aim upwards

  • other delicate areas: 
  • the shin (hurts like a bitch if you kick it right - also, you can hit this spot if you’re being held in a choke-hold and if your attacker has to move in order to stop you from kicking him, he’ll have to angle his body so as to expose his stomach and crotch to the wild spastic jabbings of your elbows)
  • the solar plexus (either jab while holding your hand in a sort of spear position or use your elbows - unless you’re super strong, your punch probably won’t wind your attacker. Your elbow or a spear hand will, however)
Originally in (most) martial arts, you hit the solar plexus because it supposedly contained an important chakra. Now we know that it actually also contains like a bunch of necessary organs that are exposed just below your ribs and is also (roughly) where your diaphragm lives so getting punched there is not pleasant.
  • the clavicle (from experience, getting hit in your clavicle HURTS LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER. If you strike downwards with your knuckles, the person might just cry. Like I did.)
  • the ear (this is probably the best place to punch besides the throat. It’s all cartilage so it probably won’t hurt you all that much and most people will be like “DUDE YOU PUNCHED ME IN THE EAR WHAT THE HELL”)
  • the kidneys (this is harder to hit without training but if you somehow get your attacker’s back to face you, try to hit’em in the kidneys. Again, from experience, this FUCKING HURTS. You can’t really hit the kidneys from the front with any effect but from the back it is super painful)

  • if you’re held in a choke-hold, try turning your head so the forearm isn’t pressed into your throat. If you can position yourself right, you can sort of force your chin into the crook of the elbow, making you able to still receive (limited) oxygen and provide time for you to kick some shins or elbow some spleens and shit

-Also, remember that a guy’s junk is not an off-button. Don’t think that you can rely on a swift kick to the balls to immediately incapacitate him in an emergency. Adrenaline and anger can keep somebody going for a long time even through extreme pain, and if you expect to end a fight with a single groin-attack you might be caught off-guard when he doesn’t drop. Certainly go for it if you get the chance, but keep hitting him until the fight is over.

-Draw blood if you can, especially if you can draw it from the face or the eyes. Blood in the eyes is not just a good way to impair your attacker’s vision, it’s also a really good way to freak them out and let them know that they might be getting more than they bargained for by picking a fight with you.

-Elbows and knees are really powerful weapons. Elbows are very sharp and very strong and if you are in close-range they are often more effective than trying to throw a punch. 

-Yelling and shouting makes you scary. 

-The tops of people’s feet are actually quite delicate, so a well-placed heel ramming down can break all those little bones (especially if you’re wearing heavy shoes or heels)

-It only takes 7 pounds of pressure to break a collarbone/clavicle. And I know from personal experience that getting your collarbone broken is HORRIBLE. Hitting someone with the heel of your hand or punching them may be enough to at least fracture it.

-If their arms are bare, try pinching the tendon on the inside of their elbow as hard as you can. In the self defence class I took, they told a story about how one girl actually ripped out her attacker’s tendons.

-There’s not much sense in fighting clean. Bite, scratch, pull their hair. Pull their ears. Earrings? Rip ‘em out. 

-Smacking your cupped palms really hard over someone’s ears like this can disorient  them and with enough force, burst their eardrums.

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-Practice “power yelling”. Here’s a good site about it.

-And like my mum always told me, if you don’t feel safe, keep your keys between your fingers. Like Wolverine. No one wants a punch from Wolverine.

Stay safe out there!

Just to add: If you strike at the nose upward with the meaty part of your palm, you are less likely to break the nose - it’ll be more of a stun than anything else. If you can, strike downwards with your weight behind it. Gravity helps.

But honestly, a stun is better than nothing. Just remember to use that part of your palm. 

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crystalsavestheday:

laborreguitina:

t33nagewh0re:

becauseiamawoman:

thefullcircle:

feministsbakecupcakestoo:

televisionwithoutpity:

The ladies of The Talk did a no-makeup show today, which made us happier than humanly decent.

This is how TV should be. If a group of ladies are gonna sit around, drink coffee, and gossip then they should look like a lot of the people watching at home.

Bonus points if they wear face masks and paint their nails.

loveloveloveloveeeeee

Yes, yes, yes. I would love to see more of this in the media.

yes. YES. good.

tell me why julie chen is still uber cute. 

and they still look so good

moniquill:

take-mikazuchi:

I’m sorry I’m a male. I’m sorry society treats me better than women, for whatever reason, when I really don’t deserve it.

I’m sorry I’m white. I’m sorry for those who have been persecuted because of their race. I really am.

But please please please stop making me an enemy simply because of the way I was born. I don’t want women or any race to be treated poorly. But please stop making white males an enemy because of it simply because we’re both white and male.

^ FYI this is another thing that makes you creepy, guy who complained that girls and women call you creepy for no reason.

ETA: Some actual education

stfufauxminists:

NO. NO. IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU OR YOUR FEE FEES. IT’S ABOUT ENDING FUCKING OPPRESSION.

No one wants you to feel guilty - they want you to feel informed. They want you to feel incensed that others don’t have the same rights and privileges as you, not indignant that someone of a marginalized group had the audacity to say it to you and it made you feel a twinge of badness for one fucking second.

Seriously. STFU.

note-a-bear:

Whether or not your dumb ass feels guilt is none of my concern. What concerns me is how you use your privilege to help others. I don’t give a shit what you do with your own time or your own learning. But if you’re not willing to step up to the plate and put yourself on the line when someone who is less privileged than you is being harmed, then you’re worthless to me.

Fuck your guilt.

Guilt is useless.

witchsistah:

It’s simply this:

“ Let me explain this by giving you an analogy. Let’s say you’re crossing the street and someone hits you with their car. They might have been going at 5 miles an hour, or 60, but either way, you’re now on the concrete, injured in some way; be it a sore body, or a mangled one. Now, let’s say that you’re still conscious, and very cognizant of every way in which your body is hurting, bleeding, burning. Let’s say you’re groaning in pain. Let’s say you’re screaming, “It hurts, it hurts!”


Now, let’s say the driver gets out of the car, start sobbing and goes, “Oh my god, I didn’t mean to do it, so you should stop saying that it hurts.” or “Every time you groan, you’re making me feel bad about the fact that I hit you! I don’t want to feel guilt!” or “I didn’t really hit you, I couldn’t have. I’m a good driver, and good drivers don’t hit people with cars!” or “I wasn’t trying to hit you! I didn’t mean to. I didn’t see you!” or “Shut up, shut up, shut up, your reactions are making me feel awful!” or “I didn’t hit you that hard. Get up and walk it off, you’re just overreacting.” or “Seriously, stop groaning. Stop bleeding. Get up and walk away! You’re making me feel guilty! You’re making me feel bad! I know I hit you with a car, but what about me? What about how I feel?” or “I’m crying because I hit you with a car, and you’re more concerned with the fact that you’re bleeding?! Why aren’t you comforting me?” or “How am I going to avoid hitting you if you won’t make sure I can see you?” or “Y’know, I got hit by a cyclist once.”

Would you feel sympathy for this driver, or would you think, “None of that compares to the pain I feel right now!” and “Stop trivializing my pain!” and “This is not about you!” and, “I don’t give a fuck about your tears, you just hit me with your fucking car!”

Basically your crying out in your pain is harshing their squee.  Please either quit suffering or suffer over THERE where they can’t see or hear you (because that’s how they want their world to be anyway).

“I cannot hide my anger to spare you guilt, nor hurt feelings, nor answering anger; for to do so insults and trivializes all our efforts. Guilt is not a response to anger; it is a response to one’s own actions or lack of action.” Audre Lorde, “The Uses of Anger”

In case you didn’t get it from any of the above:

There is not a single fucking person on earth who wants you to feel sorry about the privilege that you have. You can’t control what privileges you have. What we want you to do is USE THAT SHIT TO END OPPRESSION.

We’re not the ones who ‘made you the enemy’

Society did that.

Take it up with society.

Prove yourself an ally.

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